Monthly Archives: September 2011

Dear Facebook Fam,

Facebook will always be free. I repeat, Facebook will ALWAYS be free. See those ads on the right side of the screen using random people’s faces from their accounts? They make it so. They pay Facebook money in an attempt to send you subliminal messages for you to purchase their product and/or visit their site so you won’t have to pay for the service. ‘Member MySpace and the sponsored inbox messages and info bars when you visited other folks’ pages? Just like that.

Contrary to all the thousands of posts you’ve seen in your timeline about some random person seeing it on the news and even though somebody with waaaaaaaaaaay too much time on their hands came up with a well-thought out “price grid” for what folks could possibly pay for Facebook service, it is absolutely, positively, completely, utterly FALSE! Don’t believe me? Take a gander at the innanet’s No. 1, myth-busting site, Snopes.com

Frankly, any of you who re-posted, panicked and felt anything other than annoyed over this hoax deserves it all. If any of you bothered to watch the TV news and keep up with something other than TMZ, you’d know that the only thing that’s been going on with Facebook in the news lately is everyone’s annoyance with all the changes Team Zuckerberg has made to the site.

I know we live in an age of “Click and share” but it is no substitute for actually checking out information before you distribute it. These days, everyone with a blog, Twitter account, Facebook page and the ability to create a “Like” page fancies them self a journalist. O_o While I can’t control what you choose to call yourself, I can offer you a piece of advice, one journalist to another. #sarcasm Verify! Verify! Verify!

Before you start posting shit all willy nilly, back it up with two credible sources. If yo’ mama witnessed an accident, you better find two people who saw what she saw! I’m petitioning Congress to write a piece of legislation that states you have to be able to think for yourself and read and write on an eighth-grade level before you are allowed to open and maintain a social media account. This shit is getting ridiculous!

I swear fo’ multi-racial Jesus, the next time I see another one of those “It’s true, it was even on the news …” or one of those Facebook price grid status messages, I’m deleting the hell outta you. I don’t give a hell if you’re a friend, a family member, a follower or somebody tryna be nosy, I will delete yo’ ass!

More on Troy …

Troy Davis

Earlier today, I posted about my feelings on this whole case. Last night while on Twitter, someone in my timeline asked, “I wonder if he knows who did it?” That got me to thinking, if he knew, how come he never said who it was to save himself?

I watched and read a whole lot about this case. From what I gathered, it was Davis and another guy beating up a homeless man. The police had nine witnesses. Seven came forward to either recant or change their statements. Add to that the fact that it was dark which likely means only the four men present saw what happened.

I have seen enough Lock Up and been around enough prisoners (all three of my parents served as corrections officers) to know that if given the chance, they will all tell you they’re innocent. As was stated in my last post, I am not saying Davis was or wasn’t innocent, I’m saying there was doubt. Entirely too much.

With that doubt comes questions. Just who the hell was this other guy and where was/is he? All types of people claiming they were associated with the case have surfaced, except this guy. A woman surfaced on CNN saying the real killer has admitted to her that he was in fact the killer. That Troy was innocent and threatened to kill her and her family if she told anyone.

Why haven’t we heard this guy’s name? How come we don’t know who he is? Is this a situation of no snitching? God, I hope not. That mess is killing our community. I want to know what is going to happen now. Will folks continue to work to clear Davis’ name? If he’s innocent, I want it to be proven and shouted from mountain tops. There was way too much doubt to proceed with this execution. We want need answers, not only for this case but so many others as well.

About Troy Davis …

Troy Davis

Like millions of others, last night I sat on my couch awaiting the SCOTUS decision on whether or not to grant a stay of execution for Troy Anthony Davis. When the news finally broke that all nine justices said no to the stay, my heart dropped. I mean, I’m not saying Davis was innocent, I’m not saying he was guilty, but the fact that there was doubt is why there was uproar and why I feel the way I do.

The way I understand it, Davis was convicted of shooting an off-duty cop who was working security at a local Burger King. Davis and another man were attempting to beat up a homeless man for a bottle of beer, the officer was shot, Davis was convicted two years later and was sentenced to die. The shooting was 22 years ago. Per law, any convict condemned to die is granted appeals all the way to the SCOTUS, if necessary.

I learned yesterday that this was Davis’ fifth time trying to get a stay granted. The closest he ever came before last night was 2.5 hours before it was time to be executed. For the past week, Twitter and Facebook have been ablaze with people who either just learned of the case or who just started to give a damn. “I am Troy Davis” t-shirts, icons and hashtags started showing up. Support for him swelled to full on activism. Folks signed petitions. They called courthouses, the offices of lawmakers and ever the offices of the SCOTUS. Even after all that, not a single person in a position to do so spoke up to save this man’s life. As an American, this saddens me. As an African-American, it frightens me.

As high school students, we’re taught lessons about the three branches of government (executive, judicial and legislative) and all these documents that supposedly guarantee “liberty and justice for all,” “the right to a fair trial” and the “right to be judged by a jury of your peers.” As Americans, a lot of us are likely able to regurgitate this information yet we don’t have an understanding of what it is or how it works.

There were folks on Twitter who were actually disappointed that the POTUS didn’t intervene. There were folks who were calling for the SCOTUS to not only vote for a stay of execution but to have the sentence be commuted and/or exonerate Davis. Add to that the fact that people who were trying to help by having folks call these officials to express their opinions had no idea of who was in charge. While I can certainly sympathize and empathize with everyone involved, I have to say my disappointment goes well beyond the justice system.

I’m disappointed in us as a people who managed to mount a full-on social media revolution to save the life of a man you’ve never met and you have no idea of his guilt or innocence. I’m disappointed at folks who stand boldly on Twitter, Facebook, their blogs and the likely who have no clue as to what they are saying. I’m disappointed that it has taken a man losing his life for people to remember that we have the power to make a difference.

And I am disappointed at my journalism colleagues and the way this story was covered. With the popularity of such sites as TMZ, Media Take Out and all the other trashy sites, my colleagues have developed the nasty habit of Tweeting and putting out information with reckless abandon. The field of journalism by nature is one where competition is not only healthy, it’s on HGH. We’re constantly trying to one-up the competition by having more information and seeing who can put it out the fastest. Now that technology has grown to feed our impatience, it has encouraged people to put out unconfirmed and at times, pointless, information that serves no real purpose other than besting the competition.

So, what now? How will this army of impassioned people channel its energy to fight unjust causes? What issue will it now move on to because, trust me, there is a plethora of things from which to choose. We have a history of organizing to exercise our rights to free speech, assembly and petitioning the government for a redress of grievances.

My hope is that we don’t go back to our respective corners of the earth and put on the cloak of apathy. If we retreat, let us go only to make a plan for how we will use our powers to call further attention to the flawed justice system. Let’s huddle about how we will vote out the politicians and lawmakers who insist on robbing our children of a good education. We have to use this energy and this momentum to do something other than run our mouths about what’s wrong. Now is the time for us to actually DO SOMETHING!

What are your thoughts?

New TV shows, old approach …

Finally, the week we television lovers have been looking forward to all summer has arrived. It’s fall premiere week! This is the week when we get to see what the writers from all our favorite shows have been working on all summer.

Before The Jaded Nyer decided she didn’t love us no more, we used to have a way of preparing you guys for the new season. She’d have me on as a guest for “Monday Musings” before the new shows started and we’d talk about the ones we loved that were coming back, the ones we hated that were coming back and muse on the thought processes of the Hollywood gatekeepers who were green lighting these god-awful shows. Fun times.

Since my good friend Jaded has abandoned us, I have taken it uponst myself (yes, I said uponst), to give you guys an update of the old shows and a run down on the new ones. Cool? Cool. First up, the old shows I can’t wait to see return. Since Jaded ain’t here, she don’t get a vote. Na na na boo boo

Dancing With the Stars will always be around. It won’t go anywhere. Ever. It’s like roaches. They will assemble a motley crew of one star and several used-to-be stars, give you a long shot, a favorite and a villain. Those will be your top three. Somebody will lose an ass-load of weight. And they’ll do it again for the Spring season.

Glee and Raising Hope are seriously the highlights of my Tuesday. Where else will you get a dose of show tune remakes of popular music with a side of effed up family life with baby expressions that say everything you’re thinking?

Harry’s Law is easily my favorite show from last season. I absolutely adore Kathy Bates. I always have, so, seeing her every week is a real treat. Plus the fact that she is a defense lawyer in the craziest circumstances. I like the plot. Annnnnnd, NBC has done me a favor and put it on before Law & Order: SVU. The problem with that is it is all on the same night for my ABC shows The Middle and Modern Family. I see right now I am going to have television ADD.

I want to study at her feet!

Grey’s Anatomy has been an awesome ass show for a lot of years. There’s a reason for that. Shonda Rhimes’ writing team is not to be effed with, OK? I came to this show about two years after it started. Once I got caught up, I haven’t been able to let it go. It is pretty much an obsession. She’s been able to write complex and neurotic, yet relate-able characters. That is also why I’m glad to see Private Practice coming back. That team of hers sure knows how to hook you and keep you coming back. One day, I want to be able to have that kind of influence in the world of sitcoms. Y’know, if they don’t become extinct first. But, yay for Rhimes!

Of course the popular CBS and NBC sitcoms are coming back. Y’know, the Two and a Half Men, How I Met Your Mother, The Office, 30 Rock, Community… they’re all back. Something else that’s back is the noticeable absence of people of color. With all the new shows the only roles for people of color still remain the role of the funny/sassy friend. I haven’t noticed any characters being added of the rainbow hue either. It’s like Hollywood wants to make sure that only one person of color and no gay people exist outside of reality.

The only thing that will likely pacify me is the addition of Person of Interest on CBS that will star one of my favorite actresses, Taraji P. Henson and from Shonda Rhimes’ team, Scandal starring Kerry Washington and the oh-so-fine Columbus Short. Person of Interest starts this Thursday, opposite Grey’s Anatomy. So, y’all know that means I will be watching it on the interwebs this weekend. ABC seems to be holding Scandal hostage. It will likely be a mid-season replacement. I’m guessing for Charlie’s Angels as I am predicting that remake will SUCK!

So, there you have it, the new fall line-up. What are you looking forward to most?

Serena is my girl …

As you guys can tell, I’ve been on a bit of a break for the past couple weeks. I’d give you guys a reason but I’mma just be real. I was lazy. I was tired, not getting enough sleep and I just couldn’t bring myself to half-ass a series of blog posts. One of the rules of Blogger Etiquette is to know when to take a break. Well, the last two weeks were “when.”

Now THAT is passion!

As if she knew, my girl Serena Williams, came in right on cue to give me blog fodder. Sunday afternoon, she played for her 13th U.S. Open title. While she didn’t win, she did make waves for having a verbal altercation with one of the officials. Apparently, Williams yelled at a time not permitted by the rules of the Grand Slam. It was ruled a hindrance and Williams was charged a point. Seeing this as unfair, homegirl went all the way off.

She used several statements, none of which were profane or were in any way threatening. They were funny but not threatening.

  • “If you ever see me walking down the hall, look the other way. You’re out of control. You’re a hater and you’re unattractive inside.”
  • “Code violation for this? I expressed who I am. We’re in America last time I checked.”
  • “I am not the one.”

Williams was fined $5,000 for the outburst and folks everywhere are up in arms about it. I don’t condone unsportsmanlike conduct and I don’t condone double standards either. Williams’ outburst is being harped on simply because she is female. Her male counterparts argue with and swear at officials all the time. We rarely ever hear about them being disciplined.

I say whatever is good for the goose is good for the gander. If female professional tennis players are held to a certain standard, the male professionals should be as well. Most of your country club sports (tennis, golf, etc.) are individual games where the players aren’t just playing against their opponents but themselves as well. That is a lot of stress and pressure. The last thing any of them need is the perception that an official has it in for them.

It is my hope that Williams can move past this, just as she did in the 2009 incident where Compton almost came completely up out of her? Either way, I am hoping Williams will just let this blow over, without an apology, even. No one should ever apologize for their passion, but, what say you? Should she have been fined more? At all? Should she apologize?